Co-parenting is the act of sharing parental duties. Oftentimes, parents are divorced or separated. While some of them can adapt to the situation more quickly, others find it difficult to do so and struggle with conflict, miscommunication or absence of communication.
Co-parenting therapy therefore equips them with the requisite tools and skills to help improve their communication, reduce conflict and plan for a better future.
Benefits of Co-Parenting
A good co-parenting relationship has the following benefits:
- Children live better lives.
- They have higher self-esteem.
- They learn good social skills.
- They enjoy better relationships with their parents.
- They learn organizational skills.
- They do better in life because they are not bogged down by conflicts.
- Co-parents have a smoother life and make more impact on their children’s lives.
- The family remains safe and a place of comfort for everyone.
Advantages of Co-Parenting Therapy
Co-parenting therapy helps in three main ways, namely conflict resolution, healthy communication and parenting strategies.
Conflict Resolution
Conflict resolution is one of the main benefits of co-parenting therapy. More often than not, divorced or separated parents continue to grapple with the same issues they had while they were still married. This can take a toll on their mental health or that of their children and make it difficult if not nearly impossible to have anything to do in the future. A good co-parenting therapy therefore helps them understand each other better and equips them with the relevant conflict resolution skills to be able to resolve their differences amicably whenever the need arises.
Healthy Communication
Healthy communication is another benefit of a good co-parenting therapy. It teaches co-parents effective communication strategies and affords them the opportunity to communicate better and nip conflicts in the bud before they rear their ugly head. With healthy communication, co-parents can schedule time sharing and events focusing on their children, address issues without trading blames and exchange information without reliving the past.
Parenting Strategies
The other benefit of co-parenting counseling is parenting strategies. Co-parenting therapy helps co-parents know how to take better care of their children in the face of a messy divorce or separation. It helps them learn how to be consistent with both households, arrange workable time sharing, pick-ups or drop-offs, have supplies in both households and perform any other duties as may be required from time to time for the wellbeing of their kids.
Looking after a child is difficult but raising a child all alone is even more difficult and twice the workload. The Center for Connection, Healing and Change recognizes this fact, understands the issues that tear families apart and works with families to resolve these issues and find more satisfying ways to talk and connect while protecting parents and their children.
Divorced or separated with kids? Get co-parenting therapy today and raise better kids together. Schedule a free consultation today, or visit CCHC offices in Woodbridge or Fairfax if you are in Virginia. For more information or inquiries, email CCHC or call (703) 878-3290.